When a wedding gets near, we can’t avoid everybody from giving out all sorts of unsolicited advices to both the bride and the groom. Their families will most likely give out tips on what they think is good. We are all focused on what should be done. But who tells you what NOT to do? That’s actually one of the factors that people are missing out when they give out advice to the soon-to-be-couple. There are a few things that I’d like to add to your wedding list. These are what you should avoid.
We all know that your family means no harm to your wedding day and they could only wish you all the best. In fact, they have a tendency to plan the wedding according to what worked for them or their friends before and now they are applying it to your wedding. It’s actually not awful but sometimes, what works for them may not work for you and it could only make things worse for your wedding day.
Don’t allow anyone else to decide how your wedding should go. It is your big day and not theirs. You should take part in the decision making since these people who are trying to help would have to consult you first if you think their ideas could suit your taste and not the other way around when they would just inform you of what they will be doing for your wedding. It just doesn’t work that way. Even wedding planners and coordinators “coordinate” with the bride and the groom first before making any further steps in preparation for the wedding.
In being a hands-on bride, you want all the best and you won’t settle for anything less on your special day. From the dress, decorations up to the menu, nothing must be left out. We must also consider that we are only human who get tired and stressed. You tend to do and mind each and every primary responsibility to make the wedding a success and end up the most stressed out person in the entire celebration when you should be the one enjoying. You must delegate men and women to do a particular work for your wedding. Better yet, get a very good wedding planner who will take all the stress for you. That way, all you will have to be concerned dealing with is how to slip into your gown perfectly on the big day.
This rule is always being overlooked in special occasions like weddings. Please do not be late. It does not matter if you’re an important part of the entourage or if you’re the bride or the groom. Just do not be tardy. Don’t make guests and your soon-to-be spouse waiting for you. I’ve already been to a number of weddings and this is usually the case. Every person ends up worrying if something came up and either the bride or the groom backed out of the wedding. And then here comes the bride all dressed in white. It took her quite some time so now the flowers are all dry. We do not want that to happen, do we?
Whatever it is, don’t be anxious about it. Do not worry that something wrong could possibly happen during the big day since believe it or not, the more you think of it, the more it will happen. So just relax and get married!
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