woman How To Pick Up Women

Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, “Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy.”

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.

He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.

You can probably relate. I know I can. I’ve been there about a billion times. Heck! – I used to be so scared to approach an attractive woman that I’d imagine her steamrolling me, leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool is that – I’d disqualify myself without even talking to her.

If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they’ll still think you’re trying to pick up on them.

This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading…

Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who’s minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.

Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).

I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.

They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.

Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.

And then I’ll bark, “Ow… you hurt me.”

A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, “I’m so sorry.”

I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”

This emotionally hooks the woman into an interaction with you.

Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.

In plain English, she’s hooked them in. Anything they do to win her over, reels them even closer.

With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.

Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.

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